You are not alone

Ernest Fung
1 min readSep 6, 2018

You want to make a change in your life, take a step towards something, but you don’t know which one to take.

You struggle with the day to day of life, wondering if you’re doing what you’re supposed to be doing or just wasting your time.

You act happy, but you’re having a hard time.

It’s important to realise that you’re not alone. You really aren’t. People want to help, they just 1) don’t know that you need help, and 2) probably don’t even know how to help.

You aren’t the first person to deal with what you’re dealing with (assuming you’re not a crazy sociopath with crazy ideas). It’s the same problem that people have been dealing with year after year.

Like everything else, this too will pass.

You’re not alone, you never have been. It just feels that way. But there’s a simple way to solve this — talk to people. In the rare case that you decide to talk to a narcissistic moron, people tend to be very sympathetic (and likely share their own stories too). Sometimes, it’s just having someone listen and nod. Other times it’s just sitting in a room together not saying anything out loud.

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